Don't plan to fail

If you plan for failure you surely will.  If you plan on staying strong and pushing through all the hard times and moving forward no matter what - then you will succeed.  Right now my heart is breaking for two of my friends who are hurting.  One wants to push through and make it work, the other made plans to fail and he is failing.  In my opinion the number one reason why it didn't work for them is because God was not the center of their lives.  not just their relationship, but also their personal lives.